28 Weeks

Wow, I feel like this pregnancy is flying by so quickly now. Our sweet girl is going to be here so soon! And we have lots to do before then. We said our goodbyes to our old house (tear) and have now been living at my parents house since the beginning of January. We FINALLY found the house we want and put a contract on it last week. If all goes as planned we should be closing at the end of February. Yay! I'm so relieved. I was beginning to think we would never find the right one but thank the Lord we did. And I should have just enough time to get things settled before Little Miss decides to make her appearance. As for a name, it will be for sure be Ella but we haven't nailed down the middle name. I'm sure that will be finalized soon once Blake can make a commitment to one :) He just wants her name to be perfect :)

Okay, let's see. As far as pregnancy goes, I am doing well but I have definitely slowed down a great deal. My stomach hurts a lot and I'm just generally uncomfortable but I know all that is normal. As of my 26 week check up I have gained 15 pounds total. I wouldn't be surprised if it was already more at my 28 week check up this coming Friday. I also failed my glucose screening at that visit. Talk about a bummer. I passed it with Preston so I definitely didn't expect to fail this time. So I went last week and had the 3 hour test performed (ugh, it was not fun) and I passed! But up until the end I thought there was a good chance I would fail again. What they do is have you drink an entire bottle of the glucola liquid. It's kind of like a sweeter/syrupy Hawaiian Punch. Gag, right? Oh and I couldn't have anything but water after midnight the night before so it was not pleasant. Anyway, once you drink it they check your blood sugar level every hour for 3 hours and it should go down below a certain number in order to pass. I passed after the first hour and was feeling very excited and then I failed the second hour. Geez! It was supposed to be under 155 and mine was 159. So here I was at the tie breaker after the third hour and it was supposed to be under 140...and it was 124!!! I am so thankful! It would have been tough to be on the special diet for gestational diabetes. So after that good report and a Chick-Fil-A nugget meal I was feeling much better :)

Also at my 26 week visit my doctor measured my tummy for the first time...and I measured at 29 weeks. Yikes! But I also measured a few weeks ahead with Preston too. He was 3 weeks early and weighed 7 lb 15 oz. I have a feeling this one may decided to come early too which will be a good thing if she continues to measure so big! My doctor wasn't worried about anything but said she will keep an eye on her.

Preston is so cute now when we talk about the baby. He pulls my shirt up to see my belly and says "Baby Sisser" and then kisses my tummy. It's just precious. He also picks up some tiny hair bows that are hers and says the same thing. I think he's going to be such a good big brother...until she wants some of his toys. We will just cross that bridge when we get to it :)

Ella moves around a TON. I can't remember if Preston was this active but this baby girl is always on the move. My belly just bounces and wobbles constantly, even while I'm walking around. It almost throws me off balance. I think she's sassy already.

I have some pregnancy progression photos that I will post soon but I need an updated one first. And hopefully we will have 4D pics of our sweet girl within the next few weeks!

Farewell Magnolia South

We're moving. I can't believe it. Funny how things work out. Our house had been on the market for six months and at the end of November we decided to take it off the market and start getting things ready for Baby Girl. We didn't have HAVE to move, just wanted to find something with a little more space. So we had just convinced ourselves that we were just fine in our little house when we got one final showing. And it's been a crazy few weeks since then. Our goal is to close on the house at the end of the month but now it's looking like we may get pushed back another week. Oh yeah, has anyone mentioned that Christmas is only five days before the end of the month? Holy moly, all rolled into one week we have to pack, celebrate Christmas, move the majority of our stuff into storage and move ourselves into my parents house. And being five months pregnant doesn't make the situation any easier.

But with that said we are really looking forward to this new change in our lives and thankful for the opportunity to do so since selling a house in this market is quite the task. I can't help but feel bittersweet about the whole situation though. We have been in this house for five years and brought our baby home to this house. When we were first married we lived in a town home for about 11 months before we moved here. I boo hooed the day we left that little town home so I can only imagine how I will feel when we leave here...especially since pregnancy hormones are involved this time around.

Side note: I got a small taste of what moving day is going to be like. We sold our dining room table and chairs on Craigslist. The other night the buyers came to get the table and I almost shed a tear when they carried it out. We bought it right after we got married and although it was my idea to sell it for a different one, I couldn't help but feel a little choked up seeing it go. Ugh, I hate being such a sap.

One of my main concerns is the change for Preston. He loves his house and I just hope he adjusts well to a new one...when we find it! We've been looking but haven't made any decisions yet. So in the meantime we will be staying with my parents. We don't have much time to decide though since Baby Girl will be here in April!

I guess that's enough mushing on my house. Thought I would share a couple of pictures of our little abode.

Our house has come a long way since the builder beige construction days...

Two Year Old Big Boy

Our sweet Preston is two years old. I can't believe my boy is growing so quickly. He is at such a fun age. He constantly surprises us with new things he has learned, especially when it's something we haven't taught him. For example, just this week he started calling "Help!" when he wakes from nap and in the mornings. I didn't even realize he knew the word much less how to use it. I must say it is pretty comical to hear him in there. He doesn't scream it like something is really wrong. It's just our alert to come get him.

He is such a tender-hearted little guy and just so sweet. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those moms who thinks my kid does no wrong. He has his temper tantrum moments just like everybody else. If he gets really mad he will yell and hit the wall or a chair or whatever is closest to him. He doesn't hit people though so I am thankful for that. But for the most part, he is such a happy and loving little boy. He randomly runs over to me throughout the day to give me a hug and kiss, leaning in and saying "MaaaaMaaa" all drawn out and sweet. He loves to hug everyone (people he knows) and tells everything bye...I mean everything. When we are in the car and turn off one road to another he tells the first road road bye-bye. If he leaves his sippy cup in another room and I tell him to go get it, he tells me bye before he goes to get it. He usually blows a kiss too. Well, he kisses his hand but doesn't do much blowing.

He can be clingy for sure but for the most part he is okay with us leaving him to go somewhere. When we drop him off at the nursery at church or for my weekly bible study, he is usually fine to say "Bye Mama" while I leave. I think he finally understands that even if we leave we will be back to get him.

He is obsessed with my Dad. I mean obsessed. He loves his Grandmama and his Nana but that Granddaddy or "NanNanny" is his buddy. Every time I tell him we are going somewhere he says "NanNanny?" I'm so thankful for it. He is Preston's only granddad but he is definitely as good as two!

Preston's favorite things are cars, trucks, choo-choos and any kind of ball. He loves footballs and basketballs. It's so funny that since football season is here he watches Blake and how he reacts to the TV so now when he sees football on he says "Football, yeah!!" while clenching his fists. He loves to be like  his Daddy.

He knows most of his body parts and can point to everything. My favorite is asking where his teeth are and he gives me a big cheesy grin. So cute. He also knows his farm animals and most of the sounds they make. He usually speaks in two word sentences. He has a hard time pronouncing some of his words but he is definitely improving.  There are several words that Blake and I understand but that others might not get at first. For example, his "Excuse Me" sounds like "MeMe". It's funny because he tells us "Excuse Me" but tells our dog and cat "Move!" if they are in his way.

We're working on colors and yellow and blue are probably the two he recognizes the easiest. He also loves to count in his own special way. We count his fingers to ten and he tries to copy us but just says "five" ten times instead. We'll get there buddy.

He is also talking back to the TV now. A lot of times on the cartoons they will ask a question that the viewer is supposed to answer yes or no. The first few times the suggestion is wrong and they say "no" and then by the third try it's a "yes". Preston has realized how many times they say no and actually answers the questions right. Of course he doesn't know what they are asking but he thinks he does apparently :)

He still loves to eat. He weighed 33 pounds at his two year check up which is the 97th percentile. The nurse says he was 3 feet tall but the doctor said Preston was in the 32nd percentile for height. I tried to measure him again and he is about 35 inches so close enough I guess.

Since he is now two and has no problem with nourishment, we are cutting off the whole milk. Reduced fat for now and maybe 1% later on if he needs too. He is still fairly picky. His favorites are chicken nuggets or fingers. He won't eat grilled chicken though. He will also eat beef roast or "meat" as he calls it. He still loves Arby's roast beef too. He really only likes corn or green peas as far as vegetables. He will some okra though too. He loves french fries but who doesn't? He also loves fruit and yogurt too. And cheese! Gosh he loves string cheese and grilled cheese sandwiches. More favorites are fruit loops and cheerios. And of course, cookies or "tookies". He either wants a "tookie" or a popsicle for a treat. Just in recent months he started eating macaroni and cheese. I think it was the texture he didn't like at first but now it's definitely a favorite. Italian pasta salad is a favorite too. Okay, enough food talk.

Preston loves to play with other kids and really has a blast with his cousins and friends at playgroup. Our next door neighbors have three kids that are all between the ages of 5-12 and Preston just watches them in awe. The boys will play basketball outside and Preston makes me take him over there to watch. They are so sweet to let him have a turn too. I really hope he enjoys being a big brother in a few months. I think it will definitely be an adjustment for him but I really think he will enjoy having a sibling.

Tis all for now on my big boy two year old. I will be back sooner than later with a party post!

Lots to Talk About

Holy Moly. I am so behind with this blog it's just ridiculous. I'm hoping I can sum up the past few months in a not-too-long-and-borish kind of way.

Let's start for the main reason for my slacking. I found out I was pregnant on August 8th and within two weeks I was completely overcome with morning sickness. And folks, it is just now easing up on me. Whew, it has been a rough few months for this mama. Although being that sick is AWFUL, I can't help but be thankful for it too. I had a miscarriage the month before this pregnancy (which was also the exact thing that happened with Preston).

So while being sick we went to the beach for Labor Day with my family, started fun fall festivities by visiting the pumpkin patch and our church fall festival. We also made Halloween cookies and had fun trick-or-treating at my brother's house for Halloween. Preston was Mickey Mouse this year and was just adorable (as you can see below).  We also took Preston to his first Auburn game and he had a great time. We were able to stay the whole game despite it being a night game. He is a trooper that's for sure. We also took him to Disney on Ice with his cousins. He actually liked it too! Maybe we will try the circus this year...

And in addition to all that I was in full party planning mode. I helped host a baby tea for my sweet friend, Amber over at our house and had Preston's birthday party two weeks later...also at the house. So we have been pretty busy around the Mosley household. Speaking of Preston's birthday though, I will be doing a separate post on his two year stats and party fun. I can't believe our boy is two!

As for our new little one, we were able to hear the heartbeat at 6 weeks and everything looked great, went back at 10 weeks and again had an ultrasound and everything looked wonderful. I went in for my 15 week check-up on Halloween morning. We had opted to have the quad screen test done that screens for chromosomal problems with the baby, including Down's Syndrome. They simply draw some blood to be sent off. I had the same thing done with Preston. It's a completely optional test that I never thought too much about until I got a call this past Tuesday from my doctor herself.

I knew it wasn't a good thing when I heard her voice instead of the nurse. I had just stepped into the elevator at bible study but thankfully I was able to keep enough cell service to hear what she had to say. My quad screen had come back abnormal for Down's. It was such a shock. I never gave the test a second thought once I left her office that day. I guess I naively thought nothing could be wrong with MY baby. After lots of tears of fear, worry and confusion, I took down as much information as I could from the doctor and tried to get a hold of myself. We were to go to UAB two days later for a Level II ultrasound, genetic counseling and a possible amniocentesis. My doctor tried to put me somewhat at ease by informing me that the quad screen is simply that, a screening, not a diagnosis. The "normal" range for someone my age and race gives the chance of Down's Syndrome as 1/900. My screening came back with a 1/160 chance, therefore flagging the doctor's to do further testing.

It's amazing how God can work in you in a situation like this. My first reaction was a bit of the typical freak-out when you first hear scary news. But as the afternoon wore on, I just suddenly started feeling a peace about it all. I knew the false positive rate for these quad screen tests were high, therefore the chances of absolutely nothing being wrong with my baby were good. However, it wasn't just thinking about it that way. It was thinking that no matter what the end result is, this baby would not be loved any less. If God chose Blake and I to parent a special needs child, it to me is a blessing in itself that he believes and trusts in us to raise a child with those needs.

After lots and lots of prayer from us and our wonderful family and friends, we went yesterday for our ultrasound, already deciding that an amniocentesis wasn't going to be an option. This procedure entails extracting amniotic fluid from the baby's sac and sending off to the lab to get a more confirming answer as to whether the baby does in fact have a chromosomal problem. However, there is a risk to the baby during the extraction process including infection and spontaneous miscarriage. It wasn't worth it to us to potentially put our baby in danger just to get a better answer.

The Level II ultrasound is a sharper, clearer picture that gives a better visual of the baby. The doctor himself examined me looking for any physical markers of Down's. He checked everything, all parts of the brain and heart and other organs. All appeared perfectly normal. Although all looked well, our risk was only cut in half, giving us a 1/320 chance of having a child with Down's. Like I said, the amniocentesis could have potentially ruled out more and given us better odds if it looked good, but it just wasn't worth it to us. I can't explain how much better I feel about this whole situation. Yes, there is still a chance of Down's but it's not something I feel stressed or anxious about anymore. I will do some research on it to hopefully educate myself a bit more but we are just excited to be having this sweet baby. I'm so thankful for God's perfect peace!

And a little something else we got to find out...IT'S  GIRL!!!!! I have had a feeling all along it was a girl but it was still a big surprise to actually hear and see it! Oh my heart is so full. We have our precious boy and now a girl. I keep picturing a little Preston with long hair and a bow, ha ha. It's hard to believe we will be buying PINK stuff. We had a fun gender reveal at our house last night and enjoyed sharing the news about our sweet girl. I made cupcakes with strawberry frosting as a filling for the "gender reveal surprise". Here are a few pictures from our night. And I might add, we are officially partied out now. Whew! I am done for a while...maybe :)

Enjoy!

First Haircut...sort of

Blake and I contemplated cutting Preston's hair for months and we finally decided to bite the bullet when the front of his hair had begun to touch his nose. Obviously I knew it was getting long but we were afraid cutting the front and leaving his sweet little curls in the back would end up looking mullet-ish. And since we cannot part with his curls just yet, we put off the haircut as long as possible. But...when the thought crossed my mind to bobby pin his hair to keep it out of his eyes, I knew we could put it off no longer.

My childhood best friend and hairstylist gave him a once-over and said trimming the top and snipping just a little bit in the back should look just fine. So that's what we did! There was literally only a tiny cupful of hair that I kept because there just wasn't that much cut off. I'll be sure to save more when he has a big boy haircut.

As for the haircut process, it was totally chaotic slightly stressful.

Things started out good since he was hanging out in my lap with a sucker.

He wasn't crazy about Erin messing with his hair while he was trying to eat his sucker but we managed to hold him still long enough to get the front snipped.

Then I had to break out my phone to try and use as distraction since he wanted down.

Then he was thankfully tired of his sucker...sticky sucker + loose falling hairs = gross mess all over us both.

Up next came the oatmeal cream pie, lasting a minute or two before the rest was shoved in my mouth.

And the final result!

Ready for nap time :)

Oh well, we made it through in one piece and our boy isn't blinded by a mop of hair anymore. Success!

18 Month Photos!

Here are a few of our new photos taken by Ann Wade Parrish. She is so awesome and we LOVE her! She always gets some great shots of our sweet P and the whole family too. Preston's first year we had them taken every 3 months and once he turned a year old, we changed to every six months.

We headed up to Oak Mountain at 8:00 one morning and it was absolutely perfect outside. Not too hot yet and the sun was still hiding behind the clouds. I would totally recommend an early morning outdoor photo shoot if you have a little one, especially in these 95 degree temps we have in the summer, bleh!

Preston really enjoyed himself out there so we will definitely be going back to visit and play.

I have a TON of favorites but I narrowed it down to 18 for the blog. Appropriate for 18 months :)

Recharging the Batteries

O boy, what a nice day it has been.

Because the past two days were not so nice.

Baby boy has decided to bypass the remaining front teeth for now and cut in his molars. Yikes. What a vacation that's been over the last two weeks. And did I mention we didn't even notice they were cutting in until one was all the way in and another was halfway in?  I was on the verge of calling my child a B.R.A.T. when the tooth discovery was made by the Hubs. Then I felt HORRIBLE. I'll take that Mom of the Year award now.

So anyway, this past weekend he ran a fever for a few days and started the fussing so I'm pretty sure another tooth will be pushing it's way through any day now.

Then on Monday, Memorial Day, Hubby started running a high fever and complaining of a sore throat. Oh man. So all day Monday and Tuesday, I have been taking care of my two guys, one whiny and clingy and one not feeling well. Come to think of it that fits both of them :)

The point of this is not to complain because I love caring for my boys. But sometimes a wife/mom has to recharge the batteries to keep sanity calm and carry on. And that's exactly what I prayed for this morning, a little time to get myself regrouped.

Blake went back to work this morning, against my wishes I might add since he still wasn't feeling well (fever was gone though). Preston was up at the crack of dawn, probably b/c of teeth and was already in fussy mode. Our playgroup had planned an outing at the pool at 10:00 a.m. but Preston was so cranky by 8:15 that I put him down for a nap, thinking playgroup was a lost cause. I was really looking forward to it since we had been cooped up for a couple of days.

I went ahead with my bible study (which is Beth Moore's study on Daniel and let me tell you, it is A.W.E.S.O.M.E, totally a must for anyone looking for a new study. It's definitely some food for the soul). So anyway, I was feeling a little down because I had a notion P's fussiness might continue the remainder of the day and I was just weary. So, what to do but hand it off to Jesus. It's amazing what the power of prayer can do to your spirit.

I finish my study, take the dog out and lo and behold Preston wakes up at 9:30. I thought to myself - we are getting out of this house and going to the pool! So I rush like a mad woman slapping some pb & j's together, loading up the beach bag and slathering on the sunscreen. We were of course still late but we made it! And it was so worth it. Preston had fun playing in the water with me and the others and it was nice to have some girl time chat for Mommy.

After lunch and more pool time play, we loaded up and headed home, Preston falling asleep on the way. That was about 12:45 ish and he is still asleep in his bed as I type at 3:44 p.m.

Today was just what I needed to freshen up my outlook and fuel me with a positive attitude. Now I'm going to have a glass of pink lemonade and wait for my little guy to wake up and my big guy to come home from work :)